Red Electric Skywalker
Another dream: I woke up someone I liked, and wanted to put my arms around him, but he just pushed me off, and said, "The pact's over", then he wanted to watch an M-movie I didn't want to watch, in my bedroom. I felt furious.
Not exactly a lucid dream, but a very lucid response: using active imagination, I put myself back into the dream while just awake, to rewrite the ending I did not particularly like, and replied, "Pact? We never made a pact, which would amount to a written agreement signed, sealed and delivered by both parties, and therefore legally binding. An unwritten agreement does not seem worth the paper you did not write it on. We agreed to have sex, and therefore consider yourself lucky I will not file any rape charges. Since we have no pact, you will not watch a movie I do not want in my room. You can go and watch it in the lounge room for now, and by tonight you will find another place to sleep."
I feel a lot happier, and stronger, since that new ending! Not exactly the ending everyone would wish, but better than someone 'using' you, which ultimately leads to their abusing you. The Eurhythmics got it wrong: in relationships, 'use' and abuse do not amount to two separate categories, but the same, and practised by the same people ;-))